Re: brother owes me money
We're actually in the final stages of bringing closure to my FIL's stuff..after 2 long,fraught years.
I agree with you getting a copy of the final accounts,we had to do that whilst fighting off BIL who tried every trick in the book to prevent us seeing them.
As regards jewellery and personal effects as harsh as this sounds,if Mum didn't bequeath them to anyone specifically then it would probably cost you an arm and a leg to pursue a claim which(,unless we're talking the Hope Diamond) probably isn't worth it.
It hurts like Hell when a sibling does what yours has but at some point you need to find closure,for your own sake..and leave him to deal with his conscience.
I wish you well
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We're actually in the final stages of bringing closure to my FIL's stuff..after 2 long,fraught years.
I agree with you getting a copy of the final accounts,we had to do that whilst fighting off BIL who tried every trick in the book to prevent us seeing them.
As regards jewellery and personal effects as harsh as this sounds,if Mum didn't bequeath them to anyone specifically then it would probably cost you an arm and a leg to pursue a claim which(,unless we're talking the Hope Diamond) probably isn't worth it.
It hurts like Hell when a sibling does what yours has but at some point you need to find closure,for your own sake..and leave him to deal with his conscience.
I wish you well
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