I will be as brief as possible.
Basically my Brothers wife and her new boyfriend are threatening him with physical harm and she has denied him access to his sons
In Feb my bro and his wife split up for good. They were getting along fine and he was seeing his sons twice a week. All was well. She got a new boyfriend, he got a new girlfriend.
All of a sudden a few weeks back, things went bad. He deleted the "Whats App" from his phone and she saw this has him wanted to "lose contact with his boys" He defended it by saying its just a phone app and he would call and text. Things got worse when she saw him (despite agreeing) playing with the boys and his girlfriend.
Now he was STILL paying the full rent on her house even while she was claiming housing benefit. So effectively, she was pocketing a lot of money while he was saving pennies for a lawyer.
So now my brother has been advised by a lawyer to reduce the payment as its too much, and get the ball rolling on divorce and mediation.
As soon as she heard this, she flipped. Her boyfriend has threatened him with physical harm, She has called his place of work and is constantly phoning him. She has been spotted at my mums place of work on a daily basis, he has text and called my brother with more threats.........but this isn't the end. She HAND WROTE a letter and demanded he sign it. When my brother said he wanted to read it first. She flipped, snatched the letter and drove the kids home.
Now there are more threats today, now including my parents, and she has not allowed him to see his sons once more. He has held his head up in all of this and not threatened her, yelled or flipped out. He is calm and seeking advice.
NOW. She is accusing him of raping her when she fell for their second son.........2 years ago.
They are due to go to mediation this week and she has threatened not to go.
I basically want peoples views of what he should do. At this moment he refuses to call the police despite being terrified of these threats, he doesn't want to jeapodise any contact with his sons. He is sticking by all his lawyer is saying and not retaliating back to her.
If you were in this situation would you call the police about the threats and the possible dangers his sons could be in if they are around someone who threatens people. Should he use this denying access, false accusations and harassment (as well as threats) as a leverage in any mediation or court.
Sorry to ask. we have never been through this and I want to know if there is anything else he can do.
Thanks
Basically my Brothers wife and her new boyfriend are threatening him with physical harm and she has denied him access to his sons
In Feb my bro and his wife split up for good. They were getting along fine and he was seeing his sons twice a week. All was well. She got a new boyfriend, he got a new girlfriend.
All of a sudden a few weeks back, things went bad. He deleted the "Whats App" from his phone and she saw this has him wanted to "lose contact with his boys" He defended it by saying its just a phone app and he would call and text. Things got worse when she saw him (despite agreeing) playing with the boys and his girlfriend.
Now he was STILL paying the full rent on her house even while she was claiming housing benefit. So effectively, she was pocketing a lot of money while he was saving pennies for a lawyer.
So now my brother has been advised by a lawyer to reduce the payment as its too much, and get the ball rolling on divorce and mediation.
As soon as she heard this, she flipped. Her boyfriend has threatened him with physical harm, She has called his place of work and is constantly phoning him. She has been spotted at my mums place of work on a daily basis, he has text and called my brother with more threats.........but this isn't the end. She HAND WROTE a letter and demanded he sign it. When my brother said he wanted to read it first. She flipped, snatched the letter and drove the kids home.
Now there are more threats today, now including my parents, and she has not allowed him to see his sons once more. He has held his head up in all of this and not threatened her, yelled or flipped out. He is calm and seeking advice.
NOW. She is accusing him of raping her when she fell for their second son.........2 years ago.
They are due to go to mediation this week and she has threatened not to go.
I basically want peoples views of what he should do. At this moment he refuses to call the police despite being terrified of these threats, he doesn't want to jeapodise any contact with his sons. He is sticking by all his lawyer is saying and not retaliating back to her.
If you were in this situation would you call the police about the threats and the possible dangers his sons could be in if they are around someone who threatens people. Should he use this denying access, false accusations and harassment (as well as threats) as a leverage in any mediation or court.
Sorry to ask. we have never been through this and I want to know if there is anything else he can do.
Thanks
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